Today is my 55th birthday. I woke up to a sign on my bathroom mirror that read: "Happy Birthday Baby - I'm glad you're alive. You're so f-ing awesome at 55." (Best husband ever - the man needs to write a book - he's f-ing awesome!) There was a time I wasn’t quite sure I’d make it this far. When I first became a mom I remember praying to God to at least see my babies grow into adults. As someone who lives by the tenet, “what we focus on multiplies” I have adapted a new dai